Kristina Roberts
Pop star and actress Selena Gomez has once again spoken out about the ongoing drama between her and Hailey Bieber, asking her fans to finally stop spreading hate. In a short note shared on her social media—one that was later deleted—Selena asked people to “just leave the girl alone.” Her message seemed to be an attempt to put an end to the endless online fights and comparisons that have followed both women for years. However, one part of her message—“It’s just about relevance, not intelligence”—caught everyone’s attention and quickly became the center of online discussion.
Selena’s words came after months of tension between her and Hailey, even though both have repeatedly tried to show that there is no personal conflict between them. Despite their efforts, fans from both sides have continued to argue online, keeping the rivalry alive through constant posts, comments, and videos.
In her note, Selena seemed calm but firm. She wrote, “Just leave the girl alone. She can say whatever she wants. Doesn’t affect my life whatsoever.” This part of her message appeared to show maturity and a desire for peace. Selena has always been open about her struggles with mental health and the negativity that comes with fame, so her appeal felt like a reminder to her fans to spread kindness rather than hate.
But what followed next in the note created a storm on social media. Selena added, “It’s just about relevance, not intelligence.” Many people found this line confusing—some thought it was a sarcastic jab at Hailey, while others believed it was a general statement about how social media often values attention over wisdom. The phrase was short but powerful enough to spark hundreds of comments, memes, and discussions online.
Within a short time, Selena deleted the post. But as with most things shared online, screenshots had already started circulating everywhere. Fans began debating what she truly meant. Some felt disappointed, saying that her comment contradicted her call for kindness. Others defended her, saying Selena was simply being honest and human—trying to express her frustration while still encouraging peace.
One fan wrote, “If you’re going to ask people to leave someone alone, then don’t start bitching about them in the same paragraph.” This comment reflected how many saw her message as slightly mixed—both peaceful and pointed at the same time. Another person, however, admired her for speaking her mind. They said, “Selena always hits the perfect balance between grace and shade. She basically said, ‘I’m unbothered, but y’all need to grow up.’”
Another fan summarized it perfectly, saying, “This is the ‘take the high road but still clap back with elegance’ energy.” It was clear that people were divided—some viewed Selena’s note as classy but firm, while others thought it might have been better left unsaid.
Selena ended her note by reminding everyone to be kind. She concluded with the line, “Be kind. All brands inspire me.” Though simple, it carried her usual message of positivity, something she has repeated in interviews and social media posts for years. Her words suggested that she wanted everyone to move on and stop focusing on unnecessary drama.
The deleted post, however, showed how hard it can be for celebrities to communicate openly without their words being twisted. Even when Selena’s intention seemed good, the internet was quick to turn it into a debate. Her huge fan base—along with Hailey’s—has often been criticized for fueling online fights. Both women have tried multiple times to calm things down, but their fans seem to continue the rivalry no matter what they say.
This is not the first time Selena has stepped in to defend Hailey Bieber. In the past, she has also spoken up when people attacked Hailey online, asking everyone to stop spreading hate. Back in 2023, when Hailey faced online bullying, Selena shared a note on her Instagram story showing support for her. She wrote at that time that Hailey had reached out to her and that she wanted her followers to stop the negativity. That moment had seemed like a turning point, as both women followed each other on Instagram soon after.
But despite these peaceful gestures, fans have continued to compare the two—mostly because of their shared connection with singer Justin Bieber, Hailey’s husband and Selena’s former boyfriend. Social media has kept this topic alive for years, with many fans refusing to let go of the past.
Selena’s new note, even though it was deleted, seemed like another attempt to close this chapter. However, the phrase “It’s just about relevance, not intelligence” reopened conversations about whether celebrities can ever truly escape public judgment. Some critics suggested that Selena might have meant that people often talk about her just to stay relevant in the news, while others thought she was expressing frustration over how people misunderstand or twist her words for attention.
Whatever the case, the situation showed how much pressure public figures face online. Every word they say is magnified, analyzed, and sometimes criticized unfairly. Even when they mean well, they can be accused of being insincere or “throwing shade.”
Many fans of both Selena and Hailey have said they wish the drama would finally end. Both women are successful in their own fields—Selena as a singer, actress, and beauty brand owner, and Hailey as a model and entrepreneur. Their careers and achievements deserve more attention than constant comparisons or gossip.
In recent interviews, Selena has often emphasized the importance of kindness, mental health, and self-worth. She has said she wants her followers to focus on positivity and personal growth. Her deleted note, while controversial, still carried that message at its core—asking people to stop the unnecessary hate.
Even though her post did not stay online for long, it once again reminded everyone how words can spread like wildfire on the internet. A single sentence can change how people see a situation, and it shows the fine line celebrities must walk between honesty and diplomacy.
In the end, Selena’s message may have been imperfect, but it was human. It showed that even someone as famous as her can get tired of constant drama and online noise. Her wish was simple: to move on, to stop the comparisons, and to remind people to be kind. Whether or not the internet listens this time is another question—but her words still resonate with many who understand that sometimes, silence and kindness speak louder than gossip.
