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Scott Disick has hit back at Kristin Cavallari for revealing a private direct message he sent her, calling the move “disrespectful.” The situation, which quickly made headlines, has sparked a debate between the two celebrities over the boundaries of personal communication in the public eye.
A source close to Disick spoke to Page Six, explaining his perspective on the incident. “Scott has no idea why Kristin thinks his text to her was manipulative. That’s not at all how he intended it to be interpreted,” the insider shared.
The source further elaborated, “He doesn’t understand why Kristin felt the need to share what he considered a personal message with the world. From his point of view, it feels unnecessary and somewhat disrespectful.”
Apparently, he is not really embarrassed over this but finds the revelation to be quite puzzling. At 41, the reality star was being authentic when he reached out for catching up without thinking there might be some harm in this. According to the insider, “He didn’t see this coming.”.
Disick’s message, which Kristin shared on her podcast Let’s Be Honest, seemed like a move to reconnect after such a long time of no communication. According to Cavallari, this is what Disick had to say:
“Hey!!! It’s been such a long time, it’s crazy. Kind of crazy how our lives ended up being kind of similar.”
He continued, “I feel like it would be so good to see you and catch up and talk about the things you’ve got to go through with kids and changing your life around over and over. I really miss you though and wish I would have reached out earlier, just been busy trying to be the best dad I can be.
The message ended with Disick saying, “I don’t have time for much but trying to think about myself a little bit again. Trying, anyway. Hope to hear from you. Just text me so it’s easier to chat.
During her podcast, Cavallari described the message as “manipulative” and shared her thoughts on why she felt uncomfortable. “It’s been years since I’ve had any contact with Scott, and to suddenly get a message like that felt off,” she explained. She added that, in her view, the tone and timing of the message suggested an attempt to reconnect on terms she found questionable.
Disick’s response to Cavallari’s claims highlights a difference in their perspectives. The source defending him explained that he viewed the message as harmless and was simply trying to rekindle an old friendship. “Scott feels like she could have declined or even ignored the message if she wasn’t interested,” the insider noted.
This public fight has sparked renewed debates over the limits celebrities have to balance their private lives with their public personas. Some fans are supporting Cavallari for her transparency in posting the message on her podcast, while others question whether private correspondence should be aired without permission.
Disick has publicly often spoken of being an active father to their three children with ex-partner Kourtney Kardashian amidst navigating through challenges of single parenthood and fame. In the note, it is perceived that he wanted some bonding through experiences as a parent or similar transitions in life over other shared things.
Meanwhile, Cavallari, who has been featured on The Hills and has had successful business ventures, has been vocal about boundaries in her personal life. On her podcast, she made it clear that she values authenticity and transparency, though Disick’s camp suggests this particular incident could have been handled more privately.
As the story continues to unfold, it reflects a broader question of how celebrities navigate friendships and personal outreach in an era where private exchanges can quickly become public. While Disick may have intended the message as a friendly gesture, Cavallari’s reaction underscores how differently such interactions can be interpreted depending on context, history, and individual boundaries.
Neither has commented any further, but the message has already grabbed significant interest from the public. Whether it is a closed matter or has opened doors for further communication on the same topic, only time will tell. For the moment, it serves to remind that celebrity relationships never are so straightforward.
